The Silence

We've all sunk our heads into our shoulders with embarrassment as our parents, colleagues or teachers scolded us. It is a horrible feeling as others look on for either concern or entertainment. It is worse as adults for the mere fact that people actually have the gall to treat us this way. The yearning for lashing out at these intruders of our personal space is understanding. Unfortunately, there are some who enjoy this type of treatment towards others for their false sense of empowerment. The more we react, the more we fuel their purpose.

Through my studies of philosophies, I've learned the silence. Silence is loud. I've explained this exercise to my children. The idea is simple.

Have a relative or friend yell profanities at you in front of people. Now, yell profanities back. Through this scenario, nothing is achieved. Both sides appear wrong.

Now, have a relative or friend yell profanities at you in front of people. Remain silent and stare at them with no emotion. Listen to how their anger reflects back onto them. You've done absolutely nothing wrong. All of the attention turns towards them. They stand there embarrased in the silence.

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